mas·och·ism

Sinful Sunday Week 174 redux

This entry is part 31 of 32 in the series Sinful Sunday

BDSM is an enthralling dance between partners. At times, it’s outright magical. The submissive inside Serafina never fails to seduce my inner dominant . . . The masochist inside Sinnjara never fails to seduce my inner sadist . . . Both are beautiful ladies.  Different yet similar. For a man who’s made embracing and understanding kink to be his life’s greatest quest, these two wonderful women are perhaps the greatest… Read More »

What Do You Doubt?

Wicked Wednesday Prompt #114: Doubt

This entry is part 19 of 19 in the series Wicked Wednesday

doubt  -  /dout/ verb (used with object) to be uncertain about; consider questionable or unlikely; hesitate to believe. to distrust. Archaic. to fear; be apprehensive about. verb (used without object) to be uncertain about something; be undecided in opinion or belief. noun a feeling of uncertainty about the truth, reality, or nature of something. distrust. a state of affairs such as to occasion uncertainty. Obsolete . fear; dread. Everyone has… Read More »

#$@&%*! Sciatica!?!

no doubt about it, I"m NOT a masochist!

I’m disappointed. That’s the bad news.  The good news is, that my disappointment is internal.  I’m upset with myself. I haven’t been reaching the writing goals I’ve set for myself.  In fact, I’m nowhere close to writing as much as I’d prefer.  Now, it should be noted that I have a good excuse.  I’ve been in excruciating pain since late April. My problem is a sciatica issue.  I’ve got a… Read More »

Silhouette – Baggage Cart Bondage

Sinful Sunday Week 173 redux

This entry is part 29 of 32 in the series Sinful Sunday

Molly’s prompt for this month – silhouette – left me with a serious dilemma. In all honesty, it’s the kind of problem you want to have, in that it’s always better have too much material rather than too little.  I simply couldn’t decide between two different kinds of silhouette styled photos I have taken of my sweet erotic slave, Serafina. I absolutely love the image I used for Silhouette – An… Read More »

TMI Tuesday July 22, 2014

Can we talk… relationships?

This entry is part 21 of 21 in the series TMI Tuesday

Up for TMI Tuesday: July 22, 2014 are relationship questions . . . 1. What is the first thing that pops into your mind when you see an attractive person? I may very well look and admire, but I also wonder what they are “really” like.  All too often people who are obviously physically beautiful don’t have tremendous depth of personality. I avoid narcissists at all costs! 2. What is your idea of… Read More »

Projecting Chi

Sinful Sunday Week 171

This entry is part 26 of 32 in the series Sinful Sunday

Are you familiar with “Chi”? I understand it as our lifeforce energy. In other words, Chi is the universal energy that surrounds living things. While it’s not easily explained by science, Chi is often accessed by martial artists as a part of their craft. You may find it interesting to discover that Master projects the same energy with his floggers . . . It’s a technique he learned from author Janet Hardy last year… Read More »

e[lust] #60

the smartest and hottest sex bloggers of June

Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to Elust #60 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for… Read More »

Happy Independence Day – Please Be Safe and Sane

And, Holiday or Not - Always Keep It Consensual

It’s the 4th of July, which equates to Independence Day here in the USA.  The 1st of July was Canada Day.  That’s a similar celebration without an armed revolution to motivate the festivities. Of course, my thinking today is less about the holiday itself, and more about the tradition of telling folks to have a “safe and sane” 4th of July.  Yes, the BDSM community motto has been taken over… Read More »

Ubi Est Mea

Throwback Thursday on Narcissism and Top's Disease

This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series Throwback Thursday

It’s a Throwback Thursday twofer today!  Here’s a post, originally written on 6/8/2012 for SpiritualBDSM.com . . . It’s said that all power corrupts, and that absolute power corrupts absolutely.  So, with that in mind, how does a dominant avoid the corruption and personal decay that can accompany the wielding of power? Well, as a beginning, it’s an absolute necessity to know thine enemy.  So, it’s essential, at least in… Read More »