Where We Come From @ MAsT: Davenport’s May Meeting

a discussion on "old guard" traditions and history of the leather community

Where We Come From @ MAsT: Davenport’s May Meeting a discussion on “old guard” traditions and history of the leather community If you’ve ever hear the word “Old Guard” – this is what the word refers to – the individuals who are the original ancestors of the North American leather community.  That’s the topic of the MAsT: Davenport’s May 6th discussion – “old guard” traditions and the history of the North American… Read More »

Life and Blogging

Busy, Busy, Busy

Hello my dear friends and readers, Despite the absence of recent writing, I do think of my blogging friends a lot.  And, I often think about the potential for this site, and I get really excited.  I love doing kink/BDSM education, I love the blogging community, I love sharing our exploits. But, I’m finding these days, that I rarely have time.  Not only do Serafina and Sinnjara keep me busy,… Read More »

“W” is for Wedding Dress Fetish

fetish and fashion continually overlap

I’ve long been aware that my fellow human beings are capable of finding fetish value in most anything we commonly (and even uncommonly) find around us.  Real people fetishize everything from robots to tentacles.  And yes, there are more than a few into what could only be called (at least to my mind) a wedding dress fetish. For instance, a quick google search for the term “wedding dress fetish” leads… Read More »

Rumors of My Demise

+ 10 Things You Didn't Know About My Penis

As the old saying goes, “Rumors of my demise have been greatly exaggerated!” The last year has been a very long one.  I spent last spring, summer, and fall, suffering from terrible sciatica issues, so I really view 2014 as a “lost year” – it wasn’t pretty.  I had surgery in January to help relieve some of my issues, and for the most part the surgery was a success.  I have… Read More »

A Conversation With Alpha

the 1st Anniversary of Serafina's Collaring

We had a small celebration of sorts yesterday. One year ago today Serafinas was officially collared as my slave. We could neither afford, nor did we have the energy to put together anything big this year to celebrate, so we simply invited our very dear friend Alpha Bull down to visit.  Our friendship with Alpha is by far the deepest we share in the community, which itself is significant. But, the… Read More »

The difficult truth!

Why can't you handle the truth?

This entry is part 22 of 22 in the series Wicked Wednesday

I believe in sunshine. I don’t mean that literally, like the rays of the sun.  Instead I mean it in the sense of everything happening in the light, nothing hidden or deliberately obscured in the shadows. When I first asked Sinnjara to wear my collar, I told her I only had two real rules – honesty and transparency.  Sure, I have protocols that I want to be followed, they all have… Read More »

Pavlok – Exercise Band with a Sadistic Twist

the mind wobbles at the potential kinky applications

Meet the Pavlok “Naturally, I believe that an authority figure should have real authority.” ~  Maneesh Sethi – inventor of the Pavlok Called the Pavlok, it’s a shocking new way to stay fit.  Like a mechanized personal trainer, except it has a special electric twist.  This is actually an older story, having been published at Boston.com first back in February, then picked up by the Daily Mail in July.  But, it’s not old… Read More »

Got “Torture Sticks”?

not exactly what you might think . . .

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Cigars & BDSM

Could it be that 50 Shades of Grey really opened the floodgates? Has kink/BDSM really become that mainstream? I ask those questions because there’s a new line of cigars of which I’ve just become aware.1  Not only is the brand name of the cigars intended to play to the BDSM mentality, the individual cigars are named in a provocative fashion to appeal to folks into BDSM, as well as those… Read More »

What does it take to be a Samadhi slave?

All it really takes . . .

What does it take to be a Samadhi slave? All it really takes . . . is all you’ve got! My dear friend Alpha, is prone to saying that Master Michael doesn’t do anything half-assed, and that’s probably even more true than he knows.  The sweet ladies who are my submissives, Serafina and Sinnara, can also confirm. I don’t want their submission on a part time basis I’m not interested… Read More »

If Orange is the New Black Then Black is the New White

Wickjed Wednesday Prompt #121: White

This entry is part 21 of 22 in the series Wicked Wednesday

what white apparently doesn’t mean to me I’m going to be honest here, I’ve got nothing.  It’s not so much writer’s block, as it is a difficulty changing gears. I’ve been obsessed with cigars of late.  It’s a hobby of mine since last summer, but it’s really blossomed of late.  My cigar obsession really took off since I started sampling a variety of different offerings from online vendors. I was… Read More »

Welcome to the Clitourethrovaginal Complex

Science attempts to redefine the pussy . . .

I woke up one morning, earlier this week, to discover that my wife’s g-spot was gone. Sinnjara’s disappeared too.  Gone! Poof !  Their G-spots (apparently) disappeared without a chance for me to even say goodbye! At least that’s what I’m told.  I certainly don’t agree. You see, earlier in the week  I read an article at Salon.com with the following headline – The truth about the “G-spot”: Why it’s time to put this sex… Read More »

Sending Smoke Signals

Wicked Wednesday Prompt #120: Communication

This entry is part 21 of 22 in the series Wicked Wednesday

Communicate! There are lots of ways that we, as humans, communicate with each other. Obviously there is verbal communication, that’s what naturally springs to mind for most of us when we hear the word.  Once we are past a couple years of age, words shape our perception of things, and the spoken word is king.  As children we spent hours upon hours listening to our teachers talk, likely far more… Read More »

Review – Victor Sinclair Serie ’55’ Sampler

Perfectos with 5-year-old tobaccos from 5 different countries

This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Cigar Samplers Reviewed

Reviewing Victor Sinclair Serie ’55’ Perfecto Sampler While I’ve had a long and checkered relationship with tobacco throughout my life (so far), I’ve only been a cigar smoker since 2013.  So, I’ve not yet found my personal “holy grail” of cigars, if such a thing actually exists. With that said, I’ve tried my share of different cigar varieties over 2013 and 2014.  I’ve sampled some classic brands like Padron, Ashton, and H Upmann, as… Read More »