Image du jour | 8-21-17

cum into my kitchen

I am happy to have some friends here in the kitchen.

Charles Olson

This transformative art was created from an image by Luc Vandorpe titled Kitchen-queen ……

No Google Referrals for NSFW Tumblrs

Tumblr tells crawlers to bug off

So it is now official. The ghetto walls are up and the gates are closed. The adult-Tumblr community is no longer part of the open web. The #pornocalypse has claimed another social media victim. Eros Blog

NSFW Tumblrs Hidden

Late last month, I found out (via that Tumblr has blocked web-crawlers from its blogs with sexual content.

To be honest, I’m not surprised.  It seems to follow a general trend on the web these days.

The current business atmosphere has become less and less friendly to sexuality and adult content.

Now, the Internet itself is beginning to turn a cold shoulder on folks who create and/or share images with nudity and sexual content.

It’s actually my thinking that the real problems for sex bloggers etc. aren’t truly coming from service providers like Tumblr.  Although those providers are certainly being forced giving in to outside pressures.

it’s the bankers

I’m no expert on the business side of the adult-entertainment industry.  However, I do know that finding institutions to process credit cards has been a long-term problem.

A few years ago, I heard a lot about BDSM toy vendors having issues with PayPal.  It was a hit and miss thing.

Obviously, there are kinky vendors still successfully using PayPal for payment.  I never understood (and I’m sure many vendors didn’t either) what did or didn’t cause problems in such widely scattered cases.

I know of a pair of toy makers that simply closed up shop.  Some vendors migrated from PayPal to FourSquare.

That may mitigate their problems for now.  But it’s no guarantee the problem won’t simply rear it’s head again.

FetLife’s Financial Follies

Several months ago, FetLife began having issues with their merchant accounts.  Big trouble.

Suddenly credit card contributions to the site weren’t being processed.  This created panic, (at least for a day.)  Then, it elicited changes in the Fetlife’s rules of conduct.  It was necessary to comply with their bank’s requirements.

That crisis elicited changes in the Fetlife’s rules of conduct.  We were all told it was necessary to comply with their bank’s requirements.  If I’m remembering correctly, another round of changes to Fet’s rules followed a short while later.

And still, the bankers weren’t satisfied.  The demands eventually became too much to bear.  Now, FetLife no longer accepts contributions via credit card.

Q. Why doesn’t FetLife accept Credit Cards or Paypal?
We understand that it’s a major inconvenience for many of you. But due to the number of content restrictions that come with accepting credit cards, the community as a whole has decided it’s best for our long-term health and viability not to accept them.

If we wanted to accept credit cards we couldn’t allow kinksters on FetLife to discuss watersports, hypnosis, period sex, blood play, edge play, consensual non-consent, and many other kinks commonly accepted by the kinky community.

Ummm, by period sex, does John Baku mean roleplaying the 1700’s?

Probably not.

wave buh-bye to search engines

The summation is simple.  Search engines will no longer index NSFW Tumblr blogs.  There’s a giant note on the service entrance where web-crawlers would enter – No Bots Welcome! and may be somewhat more friendly to web crawlers.  However, there are a number of features available to most bloggers, that are unavailable to sex bloggers.

That’s growing more and more common everywhere it seems.

For instance, there’s Google AdSense.  It can be a nice source of supplementary income for some folks with a web presence.  It is, however, no longer available for blogs with sexual content.

Google+ has been notorious for taking down the profiles of sex bloggers.  I think that’s also true with individuals involved with the adult entertainment industry.

For that matter, Google Play has never really been open to any sort of adult content apps.  I’m told the same is true for the Apple store.

Facebook seems permissive sometimes.  Other times, not so much.  Enforcement of their unseen rules seems arbitrary at best.  At worst, it looks completely random.

With the current political climate in the United States, it’s quite possible these trends will only get worse.

Sadly, the culture we live in is not sex-positive.

Society says “Don’t talk about sex, just do it.”

Bangambiki Habyarimana

The Great Pearl of Wisdom

last word

This news about Tumblr blogs isn’t likely life changing for anyone.  Some folks will need to adapt.  For others, it probably doesn’t matter at all.

These changes could even provide some peace of mind for individuals with an exhibitionistic streak.  They are now free to post on Tumblr knowing they won’t show up among a friend’s Google search results.

For me, I made one minor adjustment.  I started an “image du jour” feature on this blog.  In the past, I would have shared that “art” over at Tumblr.

I found myself pondering the changes over at Tumblr.  And, I decided I may as well share everything here…

Image du jour | 8-20-17

power exchange is my ultimate aphrodisiac

the exchange of power

It’s said that power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Nothing is absolutely universal when it comes to human sexuality.  The diversity of desire is amazing.  One size certainly does not fit all.

And, it is certainly true that playing with power is a potent turn on for many.  It certainly speaks to me.  My particular sensibilities are keenly wired to react to power and authority exchange.

Is the exchange of power an aphrodisiac for you too?

How does power affect your sexuality?

The picture used to create the artistic images in this post was sourced from a Training of O shoot filmed for

St. Andrew’s Cross in My Livingroom?

Sinful Sunday Week 332

My St. Andrew’s Cross was a gift from a friend.  Covered with something like 10 coats of hand rubbed black lacquer, the cross is massive.  It’s built into an elevated base, about 5’x5′.  It’s arms reach upward almost to the height of my ceiling.

Of course, the cross isn’t what you likely notice about this Sinful Sunday’s image.  I’m sure your eyes were drawn to the lovely submissive who is on the cross.

Her scene name is Dee.  I have played with her off and on since 2012.  I’ve become more than a bit of a hermit of late, so it’s been ages since I’ve seen her.  But she certainly remains a valued and dear friend.

I hope you find her as lovely as I do…

Sinful Sunday

Click on Molly’s lips to see who else is being Sinful this Sunday.

Click this ~ link ~ to see all my Sinful Sunday contributions.

Image du jour | 8-19-17

simply spectacular suspension ~ Sky Shibari

sky shibari

Sky shibari…

Stunning.  Evocative.

Sexually suggestive.  Yet, redolent with potential religious connotations.

To be honest, further attempts to describe, more of my words, would only distract.

A picture created by Lew Rubens is the image my “transformative art” is based upon.  An artist with both rope and camera, Rubens is a self-described…

Lewbari Master – Lew Rubens

Bondage freak, lover of people who love bondage. Bondage is my life. I have been making my living tying up girls since 2002.

Lew Reubens

I’ve titled my image “sky shibari”.  But, Lew’s inventive fusion of Shibari and Western Bondage styles is more properly known as “Lewbari“.

I probably don’t need to tell you, I am a great admirer of his work.  I first followed Mr Rubens back during his time producing episodes of Water Bondage for  

Image du jour | 8-18-17

The Kneeling Cruisequeen

I call her the Cruisequeen.

She’s in your cabin.  On her knees.  Waiting.

Dressed in only panties.  Just as you instructed.

She’s awaiting your next command…

How would you enjoy a ship bound adventure with the “Cruisequeen”?

Do you spend the entire cruise locked in your cabin, enjoying her charms?

Or, do you dress her up and take her out, to better show off your prize?

My Attempt to Create Erotic Art

transforming images into "art"

photoshop warrior

I have a hobby where I use a variety of image processing programs to transform photos.  It’s my attempt to create erotic art.

I don’t really consider myself to be an “artist”, per se.  But I do find artistic qualities in the final images I’ve created.  If that makes any sense…

I sometimes use the same process to transform photographs of the authors I quote.  Often, when I have an image I wish to share someplace like Sinful Sunday, there’s one of my artistic interpretations accompanying the main picture.

So, my “art” has already appeared here on my blog.   I also commonly post it at Tumblr.

We have art in order not to die of the truth.

Friedrich Nietzsche


I’ve been on Tumblr, as well as having a self-hosted WordPress (or site, since 2011. 

For me, Tumblr was always just a venue where I just perved and reposted other’s pictures. 

Over time, it evolved into a place where I also shared some of my own art and pictures. 

It’s a relaxing change of pace from writing here. 

Someplace I can go if I’m tired, under the weather, or generally unhappy with the world. 

There are days after work when my mind is not in any shape to write. 

That’s probably true for everyone.  Writing well is not simple. 

My transformative art is another relaxing pastime.  

I have a lot of fun exploring different programs, trying all their various settings. 

Sometimes all my fiddling creates magic.

Perhaps the effort doesn’t make anything special at all.  It happens.

If that’s the case, at least my unproductive time was passed doing something I find relaxing.

Love of beauty is taste. The creation of beauty is art.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

About My Attempt to Create Erotic Art

Wherever possible, I will credit the photograph’s source.  However, when I attempt to create erotic art the images are often sourced from Tumblr.  That can make it nigh on impossible to find the image’s real author.

For instance, I only know the original source for one of the artistic creations featured in this post.  The “painting” at the top of this post was transformed from a video shoot for Bound Gang Bangs ( #11527).  The actress is Emma Haize.

It’s my belief that the majority of the images I use are essentially public domain.  It could also be argued that the transformative artworks I share are now originals in their own right.

However, I have absolutely no intent to violate anyone’s copyright.  Should the copyright holder for any of the images I’ve transformed object to their use here, please feel free to contact me.

Under that circumstance, I’ll gladly remove your work.

Quote of the Day | 8-17-17

“As a matter of fact,” the other voice went on, “if you do tie her up from time to time, or whip her just a little, and she begins to like it, that’s no good either. You have to get past the pleasure stage, until you reach the stage of tears.”

Pauline Réage

Story of O

Quote of the Day | 8-16-17

There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered: entertainment, food, and affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection is the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. Under no circumstances can the food be omitted.

Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior

TMI Tuesday: August 15, 2017

Sex on the Brain

1. Is a weird “sex face/orgasm face” a total deal-breaker?
For starters, I have to say that I’ve never played with anyone who’s “sex face” or “orgasm face” was a problem for me.  Perhaps that’s because I study and practice Tantra.  I think that makes my outlook a bit different.  To me, sex is a spiritual practice…

2. Do you enjoy having your balls played with (or playing with balls)?
Of course!
I was going to say, “who doesn’t”.  Then I realized there are a fair number of men out there who’s testicles are too sensitive for this kind of play.  I feel sorry for those guys.

I’m fortunate enough that having my nuts fondled elicits marvelous sensations.

3. Have you ever hooked-up with somebody based on their proximity to your smartphone location (Tinder, GRINDR, etc)?
I didn’t even know what those apps did until recently.  And,  I’ve never installed or used anything like that…

4. You have some free-time in the workday–blow job or intercourse? (BJ can be giving or receiving).
I’m going to have to think this one through…
Blowjobs fit pretty well with a workplace break.  No muss, no fuss.  In fact, I knew a lady who had a serious fetish for this. It was such a strong fetish, she had developed a stable of guys who liked getting head at work. Then, she alternated between them based upon availability and her desires.  I’ll admit that she came to visit my office on a few occasions.  But, those are tales for another time.

On the other hand, I generally find sex to be somewhat more satisfying than a BJ. There’s something uniquely satisfying about the sound and feel of my balls slapping against a woman’s ass. I must admit, however, cleaning up properly after sex at work isn’t always a simple task.  It’s usually a little more involved than just zipping up one’s pants.
— For sex at the office, I’m going to have to go with the blowjob…

5. How long after having sex with a new partner do you have to wait before falling asleep?
I suppose it depends on how you define sex. Over on Facebook, friends like Hardy Haberman and Janet Hardy are arguing that BDSM can’t be separated from sex. I’ve done heavy BDSM scenes, and after appropriate after-care sent them back home to their spouse. I usually move quite slow when it comes to actual penetrative sex. So, by the time I’d be willing to sleep with you, I may not yet be willing to have what vanilla folks call sex. At least not yet…
Regardless of the scenario, I sleep quickly, soundly, and well.

Bonus: What’s the dirtiest or sexiest text message you’ve ever received?
Dirtiest text?  I got a text from an ex once…
It simply said – “mud.”
My response? – “muck.”

Of course, the graphic (right) would indicate most text messages are dirty…

I’m not sure what the sexiest text message would be.
Most anything that uses the word “Master” will do for me…

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