Sinnjara’s 1st TMI Tuesday (with notes by Michael)
1. Why would you go to a therapist?
a. You need support
b. You want to take responsibility for your life’s outcomes?
c. You need guidance and to be told what to do
A- Support and help with working through past trauma
Michael – I’m glad you didn’t say C – that’s what I’m for…
2. Thinking of the main male lover in your life, what is sex for him:
a. stress relief, tension reliever
b. a way to show love
c. something exciting he likes to do
D- All of the above and MORE!
Michael – ladies and gentlemen hold your cards, we’ve got a BINGO…
3. Do you feel a partner is being invasive for wanting to know your plans and inner thoughts?
My particular relationship is a Master/slave style leaning more into Owner/possession. With that in mind, no I do not feel that my Master is being invasive when he wants to know these things. If anything, I find it appealing and a show of love from him.
Michael – ding ding ding ding ding – we’ve got a winner!
4. In your opinion, what is intimate sharing?
Opening up to one another about everything, the good, the bad, the ugly and more. The sum of your emotions, thoughts, and experiences shared without fear or concern of the other using it in some way to hurt or harm you.
Michael – And here I thought intimate sharing was when I loaned you out to my friends! 😉
5. Would you enjoy a weekend by yourself, without the company of your partner? Where would you go? What would you do?
I could enjoy a weekend without the company of my Master, I choose not to. I would likely go camping away from everyone and everything deep in the woods. The place doesn’t matter so much. I enjoy being in the woods, listening to the sounds of nature throughout the day, bird watching, stars at night, the songbirds in the morning. No traffic, no sirens, and leave the electronics at home.
Michael – sounds almost like paradise, but where are the screams, the sound of a whip cracking, the begging, betcha you’d miss those…
Bonus: Would you buy an outfit that you love, knowing that your partner will hate it? Then would you wear it as well?
I most certainly would buy an outfit he would hate, only so that I could enjoy the look in his eyes as he promises to cut it off of me.
Michael – sharpens his knife… clothes are just so unnecessary….