An Ignoble End

not how most wish to be remembered

Masturbating man, Pompeii, 79 CE

This is the story of a man from Pompeii who came to a most ignoble end with the eruption of Mount Vesuvius.

We don’t really know anything about the man.  We’ll never know his hopes and dreams, not his profession nor his personal interests.

The only thing we know about him is his position when he died, the day a wall of volcanic ash devastated everything he knew.  To be honest, it’s not exactly a position in which most of us would wish to be buried.

This is my rifle, this is my gun; this is for fighting this is for fun.

Gunnery Sergeant Hartman

Full Metal Jacket

At least he went out with his gun in his hand . . .

Rest in peace Pompeii masturbating man.

I’m sure at the moment you came to your somewhat sordid end, you weren’t thinking you’d be famous 2000 years later.  But here you are.

But now one image of a man preserved at Pompeii has gone viral over the weekend for a slightly lower-brow reason. People have been speculating that he was preserved in one final act of self-love, because, well, it really does look like that might be the case.

IFL Science

R.I.P. Chuck Renslow

acclaimed Leatherman, founder of IML, passes away at age 87

August 26, 1929 - June 29, 2017

A true pioneer in the Leather community, Chuck Renslow, photographer, publisher, gay entrepreneur, founder Second City Motorcycle Club, inductee into Chicago’s Lesbian and Gay Hall of Fame, founder of IML, co-founder of the Leather Archives and Museum, passed away earlier today.

I don’t honestly feel qualified to write a proper short biography for Mr. Renslow.  His life was so very full of groundbreaking activities and achievements, it’s hard to know where to begin.  I’m simply not qualified here to speak with any sort of authority.  With that in mind, I’ll include a pair of short bios to try and sum up a life that

With that in mind, I’ll include a pair of quick bios to try and sum up a courageous man’s life.  A life and legacy that truly stretch the boundaries of my imagination for what a Leatherman might accomplish.

Renslow’s first short biography includes:

He was the founder in 1950 and photographer of Kris Studios, one of the earliest and most durable of the physique houses. He published Triumph, Mars and Rawhide Male magazines. He was also a noted photographer of the Ballet. His dance photography is now in the Newberry Library dance collection as the “Chuck Renslow Dance Photographs”. He opened the first leather bar, the Gold Coast, in Chicago, in 1958. He was a founder of Second City Motorcycle Club, the first club not on the West coast, in 1965. He was the founder of many bars and clubs since the 1960s. Among his many clubs were Chicago Eagle, Bistro Too, Stages (now Metro) and the bathhouse, MansCountry, which has survived for more than 40 years.


He was among the earliest members, often among the founders, of many gay liberation organizations and movements. He was the publisher of GayLife Newspaper (having purchased it from Grant Ford.) He has sat on the Board of fourteen different LBGT organizations. He was the founder of Prairie State Democratic Club in 1980. He was the lover of Dom “Etienne” Orejudos for more than 40 years and, by encouraging him and publishing his work, he is partially responsible for the art of Etienne.


Chuck Renslow was inducted into the City of Chicago’s Lesbian and Gay Hall of Fame in 1991 and has received just about every honor and awards the gay and leather communities can give him, including the Leather Leadership Award from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force in 2011. He was on the Board of Directors of the NGLTF twice, first from 1978 to 1985 and later from 2005 to 2007. He has served as a U.S. Representative to I.L.G.A. International Lesbian and Gay Association. He is the founder, in 1979, of International Mr. Leather, which grew out of his Mr. Gold Coast contest and the experience he had managing A.A.U. physique competitions. When Dom “Etienne”died,Chuck combined his Hugh collection of Etienne’s art with his own personal archives from his business and his life. These were the foundation of the Leather Archives & Museum. which Chuck co-created with Tony DeBlase in 1991. Chuck is the president of the Leather Archives and Museum and has been since it’s conception.

I know of no higher tribute than to simply write: The leather community, as it is today, simply would not exist without Chuck Renslow.  Chuck the driving force behind a number of seminal institutions for leather, he’s also the reason we have a history.

Not only was Chuck the driving force behind a number of seminal institutions for leather, he’s also almost literally the reason we have a history.  It’s incomprehensible that the Leather Archives and Museum would exist had Chuck Renslow not graced the community with his presence.  Lacking that institution, much of our history would have disappeared, or be in real danger of disappearing.

I tip my hat (leather) to you, Mr. Renslow, in your memory.  You touched this world in ways few men can claim, you have my sincere admiration.  If there is such a thing as heaven, I’m sure there will be a new leather bar there tomorrow!

The following is from the description of the book Leatherman: The Legend of Chuck Renslow by Tracy Baim, Owen Keehnen:

Living as an openly gay man in 1950s Chicago was no easy task. For Chuck Renslow, that was only his first of many bold moves. Just out of high school he began what was to become a six-decade empire, starting more than two dozen businesses in Chicago, as well as a few in other cities. He has owned bars, discos, photo studios, health clubs, bathhouses, gay magazines and newspapers, hotels, restaurants, and bookstores. Throughout it all he dealt with Mafia and police payoffs, anti-gay political policies, harassment from censors, and even controversy within the gay community.

In the mid-1950s, after having a portrait and then cheesecake studio, Renslow began experimenting with beefcake photography and began Kris Studio. With his longtime lover, the artist Dom Orejudos aka Etienne and Stephen, at his side, Renslow created Kris Studio a leader in male physique photography, resulting in such magazines as Triumph, Mars and The Rawhide Male, producing thousands of erotic images as well as several films.

In 1959 Renslow took over the Gold Coast Show Lounge and transformed it into one of the most lowdown libidinous gay leather bars in the world. With Etienne’s murals adorning the walls, a leather/Western/uniform dress code for patrons, and a dark Pit that featured all sorts of goings-on, the Gold Coast set the standard for raunchy kink and gay sexual liberation. It was the birthplace of motorcycle clubs and sex groups, but above all a place for people to meet, connect, and explore themselves and their sexuality.

The Gold Coast was also the birthplace of the first leather contest, which in the span of a few short years evolved beyond the bar’s capacity and became International Mr. Leather in 1979. More than three decades later, it continues to be one of the world’s most popular gay events.

Renslow was also one of the pioneers in taking a bathhouse beyond merely the borders of a mere sex club. Man’s Country became something truly unforgettable in the 1970s – a sex-and-entertainment complex with a variety of rooms, shops, and a Music Hall that attracted top names touring in the “K-Y circuit,” from Sally Rand to Wayland Flowers to Rusty Warren and Charles Pierce.

Renslow was a dynamic force in Chicago politics under mayors starting with Richard J. Daley, and he ran as a delegate for Sen. Ted Kennedy’s 1980 presidential run. He danced with another man at a 1977 inaugural ball for Jimmy Carter. Renslow helped protest against unfair policies, fought censorship and entrapment, and battled Anita Bryant. He even served as a field contact for the pioneering work at the Kinsey Institute, as well as performing sexual acts for Kinsey researchers. He knew entertainment celebrities from Marlene Dietrich to Rudolf Nureyev, from Divine to Grace Jones, and from Sylvester to Quentin Crisp. In their heyday Chuck Renslow’s annual White Parties were celebrations beyond compare.

When Chicago’s gay community faced the loss of its newspaper, Renslow bailed out and ran GayLife. He gave the community a voice at the critical time when AIDS was first diagnosed.

He also co-founded the Leather Archives & Museum (with Tony DeBlase). Through it all Renslow has also been Daddy of the Family, a unique created group of lovers, tricks, and friends who were bound by sex and oftentimes love and by a goal of providing comfort and support to one another.

In Memoriam Edition – Annotated References

Chicago Gay History – Chuck Renslow biography

Wikipedia – Chuck Renslow entry – personal site

Pioneering Chicago Gay Activist and Leather Community Leader Chuck Renslow Passes Away At 87 – obituary by Will Kohler

Death by Whipped Cream

tragically ironic end for fitness blogger

In a tragic accident on June 18, 2017, an exploding whipped cream dispenser struck a popular fitness and travel blogger, Rebecca Burger, in the chest.  The resulting injuries caused her untimely (and sadly ironic) demise.

Let me begin by offering my sincere and heartfelt condolences to the family of Ms. Burger.  To have such a vibrant and vital individual taken from you in the prime of her life must seem to be an unexplainable and unbearable loss.  It’s my hope for you, that the knowledge of a multitude of others around the world grieving with you provides some small comfort.

The news of Rebecca’s fatal incident has sent ripples through the internet.  After an announcement by Burger’s family on social media, the story was then reported on the French language site Le Figaro.  News of the tragic accident was then picked up by the BBC, followed by a host of others, now including yours truly.

A popular fitness and travel figure who was widely recognized in her home country of France, Rebecca had more than 154,000 followers on Instagram.  Another 55,000 fans had “liked” her Facebook page by the time of her death.

In all honesty, the passing of a fitness and travel celebrity is not the kind of news I expected to be blogging about here at Michael’s Way.  It’s not even the kind of news that normally makes it to my personal radar screen. But, lines are very blurred today.

What’s news and what isn’t? Who’s a star and who isn’t? Where are today’s “sex symbols”?

Once upon a time, there weren’t much more than three paths to becoming the kind of star I’m talking about. Being a professional model, professional athlete, a stage or movie star, those were the only real paths to becoming a recognised sex symbol.

Rebecca’s death was made ironic by her status as a fitness blogger, and the fact that we don’t normally associate whipped cream and extreme fitness together.  No doubt it was difficult for some to imagine the fitness guru they admired “cheating” by making something sumptuous that included a good measure of whipping cream.

This is where the lines get blurred again.  Isn’t whipped cream something we could easily associate with a luxury travel and food blogger?

Certainly thouogh, whipped cream is something we can easily associate with a sex symbol. After all, a bottle of whipped cream is one of the most common ways a couple ventures beyond plain vanilla sex for the first time . . .

No one expects a whipped cream dispenser to explode, let alone for that sort of accident to cause life-threatening injuries. But rest assured, while rare, exploding cans of whipped cream do happen. In fact, a recall had long ago been issued for the particular brand of whipped cream dispenser that Rebecca Burger used that pivotal day earlier this month.

I suppose it’s the same thing with becoming a sex symbol, I can’t imagine celebrity is something a person could expect. It takes on it’s own momentum. Popularity of that kind can’t be planned for, nor can it be controlled.

In that particular way, becoming a sex symbol is not unlike a fateful explosion. 

I’m sure there are a great number of factors that have caused Rebecca Burger’s story (and demise) to resonate so deeply with news organizations. Certainly, in life, she was a picture of health and fitness. Her beauty was both natural and stunning. Rebecca’s carefully sculpted body, a picture of both strength and femininity.

The lifestyle displayed on her Facebook page, Instagram account, and personal blog, was an enticing blend of romance, elegance, and the exotic. The photography is sumptuous. The meals she pictured looked delicious. The settings were usually quite luxurious. It’s all a very alluring mix, as her fans had already discovered.

Sex appeal sells.  As does romance, allure, fitness, and luxury. I’m guessing a lot of women who were fans imagined/wished they could live like Rebecca.  Most male fans probably wished/imagined they could live with her.

At the same time, Rebecca’s demise was sudden, unexpected, and tragic. No one expects a 33-year-old fitness guru in the prime of her life, a picture of health and vitality, to just die. Not. Ever.

The accident happened in a way that bordered on disbelief. When I told one friend about Ms. Burger’s demise, her immediate reaction was to doubt the story. There’s a lot of fake new out there. Who dies from a whipped cream explosion anyway? How could such a thing even happen? I went so far as to consult Snopes to verify the story.  It’s true.

Like I said at the beginning of this post, my heart goes out to Rebecca’s friends and loved ones.  I wish to offer them my heartfelt and sincere condolences.

For this special in memoriam posting, I’ve created a gallery of images.  All were original photos from Rebecca’s site or Instragram feed. I altered them all, giving them one artistic treatment (or another), as my way of celebrating Rebecca’s life, her celebrity, and her beauty.

Michael’s In Memoriam Edition – Annotated References

Rebecca Burger – Rebecca’s Facebook page (61,896 people following.)

rebeccablikes – Rebecca’s Instagram (207,000 people following.)

Rebecca B. – Rebecca’s personal web page.

Une blogueuse décède après l’explosion d’un siphon de crème chantilly – French language article, the first media outlet to report Rebecca Burger’s passing.

Exploding cream dispenser kills French fitness blogger – BBC News article reporting Rebecca’s fatal accident.

An exploding whipped cream dispenser killed a French fitness star — here’s how it could have happened – Business Insider article detailing the science behind how an exploding whipped cream canister can cause such an accident.

French Fitness Blogger Killed After Whipped Cream Canister Explosion – Snopes article detailing facts behind Rebecca’s death.

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