Category Archives: Serafina’s Soliloquies

personal posts by Serafina Samadhi

Day 14: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

How real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink

This entry is part 13 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? I would like to refer you to this entry where I explain that we are a 24/7 relationship and for me life as M/s dynamic is not a fantasy, but a reality.  As a reality it changes how you live and act.  Little mistakes can… Read More »

Day 13: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

The appeal of kink and BDSM

This entry is part 13 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink and BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? The appeal of kink and BDSM? The biggest part I enjoy is the depth of BDSM and the M/s relationship.  I enjoy the roles we have. Mine to serve, honor and take direction from Master Michael.  His to protect, control, direct and take the lead.  And… Read More »

Celebrating Boobday with Greens!

Celebrating Spring - Celebrating Beauty - Celebrating Green - Celebrating Life

This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Boobday

The theme for this boobday is green. That seems to be a very timely prompt. Officially it’s the last few days of spring here. Summer solstice will arrive this very weekend. The passing of seasons are beautiful and powerful moments in nature. So everything in the landscape is green and lively. Full of life, and full of color! Is there a better way to celebrate the passing of spring into summer, then… Read More »

Day 12: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

BDSM Humor

This entry is part 12 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

 a humorous BDSM/kink experience I recall one day at the special spot we like to call the Kinky Cabin. A day sunny, and just right.  Master and I were waiting for Sir Alpha’s arrival. I was tied to a bed inside naked and hands tied overhead and feet above, while Master lit a cigar, after it was wetted by my pussy and was out on the deck smoking while he scanned… Read More »

Day 11: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

What are your views on the ethics of kink

This entry is part 11 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

My views on the ethics of kink I feel any ethics are shaped by people who come from their various and diverse backgrounds and their sensibilities of right and wrong. Kink is as ethical as the people who are in Kink.   Of course I adhere to the basics of trust, honor and respect.  everything else is negotiable. It might also be said anything goes as long as there is no… Read More »

Day 10: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

What are your hard limits?

This entry is part 10 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Hard limits are very strong dislikes of things I will not consider at all.  I do have a few of them. The primary one is ingesting piss or poop.  I would not drink blood, fuck or be fucked by an animal. I also would not choose to be punished for real, treated like a child, humiliated, or have bathroom and cleanliness restrictions. I need my sleep to function so no sleep deprivation.… Read More »

Day 9: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

Kink related favorite music video you enjoy.

This entry is part 9 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Because the Night by Patti Smith is my favorite music. I choose that because I loved the song the first time I heard it. it is the song I chose to play for my Collaring Ceremony while I crawled my way blindfolded, down a long red carpet; and with only a white corset and heels on. Kink related song or favorite music video you enjoy. Because the Night by Patti Smith  

Day 8: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

kinky image you find erotic

This entry is part 8 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Post a kinky image you find erotic. why is this an erotic image for me? because it is a soft and furry fox tail so silky smooth! because it has a wonderful glass- I love glass! because it has a wonderful symbolism with an Eagle claw! because it is a lovely conversation piece! And I could take it anywhere if I wanted to- even a formal event!

Day 7: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

What’s your favorite toy?

This entry is part 7 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

What’s your favorite toy?   My favorite toy is difficult to pick.  In terms of durability and endurance I know I can always count on my hand.   However my toy of choice would be . . . drumroll please! . . the Hitachi!   It does the job well.  And who doesn’t have one?!   A close second is either the Salsa or Tango  really are one and the… Read More »

Day 6: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

This entry is part 6 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

The weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. I have never been accused of having too many sexual fantasies!  In fact I am sorry to say my imagination doesn’t swing that way.  However I am able to think of some scenes that are interesting and could be fun. I enjoy role-play.  If I am in an open for anything mood I am quite flexible in becoming whatever is happening. On the flip side… Read More »

Day 5: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

What was your introduction to Kinky sexual experience?

This entry is part 5 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

What was your first kinky sexual experience? My first actual introduction to Kink was in the home of Master Michael and his now former wife.  I was invited for a visit after numbers of sexy chats to visit them. It was learned that I was considering divorce as well.  They invited me and my son to come and join- and live with them. The concept was not strange to me-… Read More »

Day 4: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

This entry is part 4 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks   Early experiences were there but not recognized  till later in life by myself.  I have always been sexual from as far back as I can remember – about the age of 3 my mother laid me down for a nap with my sister the new baby was already sleeping.  It was a hot summer day, no central air- heck! no… Read More »

Preparing the Body

TMI Tuesday: May 27, 2014

This entry is part 16 of 21 in the series TMI Tuesday

The lede for this week’s TMI Tuesday: Preparing the Body 1. Do you prefer your lover: a) fresh from the bath and perfumed? b) fresh from the bath without perfume? c) clean but not right from the tub or shower? d) slightly sweaty (or musky)?   My answer is all but a) fresh from the bath and perfumed?  Cleanliness is all important.  I do like perfumed scents, however it has to… Read More »

Day 3: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

How did you discover you were kinky?

This entry is part 3 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

How did you discover you were kinky? I suppose there is latent or otherwise a kinky side in everyone. I was no different. I certainly had imaginary encounters with fictional characters or infatuations of real people. I don’t think one awakes one day and realizes they are kinky. I think it gradually dawns on folks. I know it has with me. I am aware that it is still dawning in… Read More »

Day 2: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

List your kinks.

This entry is part 2 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina

Listing kinks is more difficult for me than telling about the ones I have tried and enjoyed so I will go with that. We live a 24/7  master/slave  lifestyle.   The dominant is always the dominant and in charge. Master always gives me unconditional love, trust, and respect.  I live and give my best to honor him.  This means that I sometimes I wear a collar that is as important -as a… Read More »