Day 13: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink

The appeal of kink and BDSM

By | June 25, 2014
This entry is part 13 of 14 in the series 30 Days of Kink w/ Serafina
  • Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink and BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

The appeal of kink and BDSM?

The biggest part I enjoy is the depth of BDSM and the M/s relationship.  I enjoy the roles we have.

Mine to serve, honor and take direction from Master Michael.  His to protect, control, direct and take the lead.  And it is a force I am drawn to- like a moth to a flame

It is also called correctly submission.  The dictionary definition is the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.  Synonyms are: yielding, capitulation, acceptance, consent, compliance.

More than a bedroom or playtime activity, we live this life 24/7.   If all we did is play at roles it might be a simpler choice.

Full 24/7 M/s is a lot of work.  It has times of difficulty.  But, that is overcome by the joy and satisfaction of a real working relationship, it’s not a game.

I say a working relationship because relationships in a great variety of ways.  I have to actively make choices at all times that will both satisfy and honor Master.  I have to also be aware to not diminish my value to Master either by doing things beyond my capability, or by neglecting my health, and so on.

This is no less a challenge for Master either when you think that he is looking after and responsible for so much.  He holds down a steady job and pays bills like any other.

However, he also takes ownership of the well-being of our relationship in intricate detail.  Master is in the driver’s seat in the car, it is also a fact that he is in the Driver’s seat of our relationship and of how we live.

If for some reason Master chooses to ask me my opinion, I will give it as best I can.  But, I always strive to defer to his decisions.  At best I make suggestions of which Master then makes a choice or decides differently.

I follow.

I follow – Day 13: Serafina’s 30 Days of Kink



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Author: Serafina Samadhi

I have and still am discovering more and more each day. . . that everything I once thought I knew might not be as I’d perceived.

Reality is born into and dies in each individual mind. . .and every one’s perception of reality is only in their mind, even if that person adheres to anther’s reality – supposing that he has inherited it by will and choice.

Some people refuse to make their own choices and are never able to become responsible to themselves, and those masses adhere religiously and tenaciously to very entrenched concepts, which become the boundaries of existence, and their need for security is so great that they dare not question boundaries that exist only in their mind, of course, because if indeed they are moved, it upsets their entire paradigm.

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