• Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

In terms of my kink identity, I am probably best described as a two sided coin.  One side is dominant, the other is sadistic.  In all things kink, however, I do look to achieve at least a modicum of personal mastery.

I’m not sure which side of my personality is stronger.  Perhaps they are truly equally balanced, on most occasions that does seem to be the case.

Certainly there are times where the dominant urges are stronger.  There are also other moments when the sadist comes to the forefront.  Overall the two sides are probably a lot like yin and yang, equal in measure yet intertwined and entangled inescapably with each other.

The desire for mastery covers all the different aspects of my personality.  That line of thinking probably goes back to my childhood, where from an early age I was taught that if I was going to bother doing something, I should learn to do it right.

As a result, I wish to be not only the consummate dominant, but also the quintessential sadist.

My interest in BDSM is wide ranging.  It’s my intent that my education, as well as my scope of knowledge, be as comprehensive as possible for one man.

I’ve studied a variety of fetishes that don’t have any real personal interest, not my thing at all.  But, when it’s all said and done, I wanted to (at the very least) know and understand what the particular fetish is all about.

Most things I’m willing to try once.  It’s always been my credo that you never know if you’ll enjoy something until you’ve tried it.  Now I know that’s not literally true, but the philosophy has had an impact on my own way of thinking.

I love BDSM and kink.  I think about kink every day, several times daily.  If I’m not thinking about kink, I’m either at work or I’m feeling ill.  Otherwise there’s a sort of “all kink all the time” festival happening in my brain.

Michael Samadhi - dominant and sadistWith kink on my mind all the time, it should come as no great surprise to discover that Serafina and I do our best to live our Master/slave lifestyle every day, and all the time.  That sort of round the clock commitment to BDSM is often referred to as 24/7 or 24/7 lifestyle.

That alone makes us an unusual couple.  At least one reference I have in my library claims that less than ten percent of the BDSM community practice their craft 24/7.  How Serafina and I live and love are a pretty unique set of circumstance.

The only “concession” we make to the vanilla world is that I am a small business owner, so I necessarily work outside the home.  Otherwise, we live our lifestyle as we see fit.

Serafina’s children are grown and gone, and we have no relatives living nearby.  So, we don’t have to make any lifestyle concessions due to family concerns.  And it’s a damn good thing too, as it’s pretty hard to hide a St Andrew’s Cross sitting in the top of stairs near my home’s entry. And, that’s not even the biggest potential shock to a vanilla type who might wander into our living room.  The Dungeon Bed at the other end of the living room has a built in cage under the bed.  The cage is good for a lot of things . . .

 Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you?

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