- Delve into the Dungeon
- State of Being
- Happy Endings
- Game Show Edition
- I’m Not Askin’…I’m Tellin’!
- TMI Tuesday: March 4, 2014
- Emotions – the Travis Bickle edition of TMI
- Name a Product . . .
- The Soundtrack of My Life
- Computer Love? I don’t think so . . .
- When Sex Meets Art And Vice Versa
- TMI Styled Permanent Vacation
- TMI Tuesday: April 22, 2014
- Fill in the Blanks
- You are Such a Character?
- Preparing the Body
- Pick One – Another Oddball TMI Tuesday
- Some things to think about
- School Days TMI Tuesday: June 24, 2014
- TMI Tuesday: July 1, 2014
- TMI Tuesday July 22, 2014
Laughter: What makes you laugh?
“You talkin’ to me? You talkin’ to me? You talkin’ to me? Then who the hell else are you talking… you talking to me? Well I’m the only one here. Who the fuck do you think you’re talking to? Oh yeah? OK.”
My friend Lady Jennifer doing her Russian accent while beating her submissive puppet’s butt. There are lots of other things that make me laugh, but that one’s the best!
Well, that and doing Robert De Niro impressions . . . .
Anger: This past week, who or what really pissed you off? What happened?
“Listen, you fuckers, you screwheads. Here is a man who would not take it anymore. A man who stood up against the scum, the cunts, the dogs, the filth, the shit. Here is a man who stood up.1“
OK, so nothing really pissed me off this week, I just decided to just quote Travis Bickle – again.
Fear: What phobia did you have but overcame?
“Loneliness has followed me my whole life. Everywhere. In bars, in cars, sidewalks, stores, everywhere. There’s no escape. I’m God’s lonely man… “
I’m not afraid of loneliness, that’s Travis. I was once a little bit afraid of heights . . . So, I became a rock climber! I’m the sort who believes in facing one’s fears, embracing them even. And since I’m a little bit afraid that most who read this won’t get the reference, it’s another Travis Bickle quote. I mean for fuck’s sake, if he’s good enough for the Clash to quote, he’s good enough for me!
Surprise: Recently, what unexpected act or behavior did you experience in your sex life?
“Hello Betsy. Hi, it’s Travis. How ya doin’? Listen, uh, I’m, I’m sorry about the, the other night. I didn’t know that was the way you felt about it. Well, I-I didn’t know that was the way you felt. I-I-I would have taken ya somewhere else.”
Five years ago, I’d never have believed that Serafina would become a beautiful slave. I always knew she loved me, I always loved her. I knew she was submissive, but . . . I always figured she’d want to be a slave about as much as Betsy enjoyed Travis taking her to a skin flick on their first date.
Trust: Many on-going relationships have a certain predictability about them. Does that certainty translate into trust?
“The days go on and on… they don’t end. All my life needed was a sense of someplace to go. I don’t believe that one should devote his life to morbid self-attention, I believe that one should become a person like other people2.“
Certainty is not trust, nor is predictability. Trust is built with a thousand different little acts, many of them seemingly insignificant.
Excitement: Who do you excite?
“You’re a young girl, you should be at home. You should be dressed up, going out with boys, going to school, you know, that kind of stuff3.”
I’m pretty sure I excite Serafina. It’s fairly likely that I excite my friends Dee, Lexxi, and a couple of others too.
Bonus: What intimate activity do you share with your partner, something that is meaningful to your relationship? For example Sunday breakfast in bed, cooking, maintenance spanking, etc.
“The idea had been growing in my brain for some time: TRUE force. All the king’s men cannot put it back together again4.”
Serafina says her “slave mantra” aloud for me each and every day. “I choose to live a life of right action in service to Master Michael Samadhi.”