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1. What is the best way you like to be brought to orgasm?
I like all sorts of orgasms. Variety is the spice of life after all. I’d say my overall favorite is oral. Fucking is great, but Serafina’s tongue has special talents.
2. What is the best way to make you orgasm quickly?
Good luck with that one. My friend Liz, who I played with a couple of times last year, calls me Mr. Stamina. Liz loves to give oral, so much so I consider it to be a fetish for her. She’s been known to use her lunch hour to get her cock sucking
desires needs fulfilled. Those kinds of details aren’t lost on me, as I do love to receive (see my answer to question #1.) Unfortunately, I’m not a good fit for Liz’s lunchtime exploits, as her lunch hour isn’t really long enough for me to get off. At the half hour mark I’m usually just getting started, and then lunch is over . . .
In the grand scheme of things it’s not the worst problem in the world to have. Some might not even consider my stamina to be an issue. But when you can’t enjoy a blowjob from a sexy lady because lunch hour isn’t quite long enough to get off, that’s actually a problem for me . . .
3. What is the typical or usual way that a lover chooses to bring you to orgasm?
Exactly how I tell her to!
I’m not kidding, we do live a Master /slave relationship. Serafina likes instruction. Put it together, and it means I get exactly what I ask for – with passion! It’s good to be me, it really is!
4. After a night of sexy play, how do you like to end the evening?
With an hour (or two) of passionate lovemaking. To me, sexy play is best when it ends with hot sex. Really, is there any other way?
5. Have you ever been given a “happy ending” from a professional (e.g., Tantric massage) or at an erotic massage parlor?
Nope. There’s not even a great appeal there for me . . .
I’m a kinky guy. I don’t consider myself to be jaded, but it’s going to take more than the prospect of a hand job from an anonymous sex professional to get me excited. Please don’t misunderstand, I’ve nothing against your average run of the mill handjob. I just like an element of kink to put an edge on things. One other potential problem is that Serafina gives absolutely awesome handjobs. And, it’s not always easy to get me off either (see Mr Stamina nickname in question #3). Now, if I could bring my slave in for the session, tie her up, and “force” her to watch me being pleasured by anon sex professional, then we’re talking an event I’d place on the calendar!
6. Tell us about something you tried to end? Did you go cold turkey? Did you succeed? Was it a happy ending?
I don’t like endings. Rarely are they happy. For instance, the relationship we’d shared with our friend Lexxi Derrière just ended. We’ve agreed to a clean break, our terminology for ending things “cold turkey” . . .
We had some marvelous times. But, ultimately, even friendship wasn’t going to be a good fit for me. I don’t like leaving things like that. I used to pride myself on remaining friends with every woman I’d ever slept with. There are some things however, that I cannot abide. One of those lines was crossed, there’s no looking back for me now. I don’t consider it a happy ending. I do however, consider it to be a case of “addition through subtraction” – so I’ve already determined it’s a successful ending.
Bonus: Do you like to give erotic “happy endings”? Tell us about your technique.
When I play with a submissive I often give orgasms. I’ve helped a girl who’d never cum for anything but a vibe (not even her own fingers!) orgasm the first time I fingered her. I’m pretty good with my tongue too. A lesbian friend taught me technique and gave lessons, not many dominants can give that brag. Of course, I’ll use toys too, as the mood suits me. A Hitachi vibe is the classic, but I’ve found a Wahl vibe that’s stronger still, and my new Celebrator is incredibly intense on an excited clit!
I love to put a submissive into restrictive bondage, then take her to the edge of orgasm time and time again, but stop just short of pushing her over the edge. When she gets to the point that she’s begging to cum, I’m starting to really feel my power as a dominant. I’ll usually make them beg more than once . . . When they do cum, I don’t relent. I don’t even slow down. I’m going to make her cum again and again, until she’s literally begging me to stop. Then I make her cum once more. If that sounds like bravado to you, I’d invite you to ask any of the four ladies who rode that very amusement park ride in 2013.
Like the sign says at the local rib joint –
it ain’t braggin if it’s fact
Today’s questions are from the TMI Tuesday blog – TMI Tuesday: February 11, 2014.