The idea behind the Dramatis personæ series is to introduce my readers to the wonderful cast of characters in my life.
This blog was originally intended to portray the story of my love affair with BDSM. I believe the blog does that pretty well.
And, you’ve probably noticed that it’s pretty difficult to discuss my life without mentioning Serafina. She really is my partner in everything.
So, more than anything else, the Joy of Kink has ended up telling the story of my love affair with Serafina.
Obviously then, everyone who’s been reading my posts here already knows Serafina pretty well. At least to the extent that I’ve been able to portray her with my words and pictures..
But, to be very honest, I have to confess that my words really don’t even begin to do her justice. Nor do the images I post truly capture her beauty.
Serafina touches my life everyday, in most every way a woman can impact her spouse’s life.
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Serafina befriended her when Sinnja was relatively new to FetLife. It was Serafina who invited Sinnja to come out to her first munch. It was Serafina who gave me a bit of a nudge (almost literally) and told me that I should take notice of Sinnja, that there was something special about the lady. Their friendship is what enabled me to comfortably begin to explore Sinnja’s submission.
In other words, the chemistry I’ve discovered with Sinnja is the direct result of Serafina’s influence and intervention.
And, the same thing is true when mentioning my best male friend AlphaBull. Right after we first met Alpha, he had some personal issues arise that prevented him travelling to meet us. The issues lasted for a period of weeks, and ultimately for several months before being resolved.
Without Serafina’s influence, I very likely would have given up on meeting him again. She was the one who quietly said to me one day, “Master, it’s pretty difficult to meet top quality people like Sir Alpha. I’m just sure our first impression of him was correct, and patience doesn’t cost us anything . . . Right?”
And how right she was!
I could spend days listing the many ways she’s had a positive impact on my life. I could go on and on ad nauseum with examples of her influence. But, rather than continuing in that vein until I am flogging a deceased equine, I’ll just give one more example.
I simply would not be here without Serafina.
I mean that in the sense of being a sex blogger. Serafina is the one who has always encourage me at every step of the way. Serafina is the one who said, “Let’s do it” when it came to posting my erotic photography at FetLife and this blog. Serafina is the one who, on more than one occasion, has said, “Master, you really should share your knowledge and wisdom, won’t you write a book about BDSM?”
I also mean that in the sense of — I would not be here on this mortal coil, I would not be alive were it not for Serafina. — I’m not exaggerating when I say that either.
And, I know for a fact that I’m not the only one who would express that same thing. Without Serafina, there are other’s in my life who very likely would not be alive too.
Think about that for a moment.
Think about the holiday classic, It’s a Wonderful Life, where an angel is sent down to help George Bailey realize his life was worth far more than he’d ever known. Think about the way that movie, that black and white film from nearly sixty years ago, can still bring some people to tears.
I know an angel just like the one from the movie, only this one’s real. She’s quite sexy too. Not only does she save lives, she cooks, she cleans, she keeps my home and heart healthy. Her name is Serafina Samadhi. She’s the mostest hostess, and oh so very much more.
It’s a wonderful life we live together!