Image du jour | 8-20-17

power exchange is my ultimate aphrodisiac

the exchange of power

It’s said that power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Nothing is absolutely universal when it comes to human sexuality.  The diversity of desire is amazing.  One size certainly does not fit all.

And, it is certainly true that playing with power is a potent turn on for many.  It certainly speaks to me.  My particular sensibilities are keenly wired to react to power and authority exchange.

Is the exchange of power an aphrodisiac for you too?

How does power affect your sexuality?


The picture used to create the artistic images in this post was sourced from a Training of O shoot filmed for kink.com.

St. Andrew’s Cross in My Livingroom?

Sinful Sunday Week 332

My St. Andrew’s Cross was a gift from a friend.  Covered with something like 10 coats of hand rubbed black lacquer, the cross is massive.  It’s built into an elevated base, about 5’x5′.  It’s arms reach upward almost to the height of my ceiling.

Of course, the cross isn’t what you likely notice about this Sinful Sunday’s image.  I’m sure your eyes were drawn to the lovely submissive who is on the cross.

Her scene name is Dee.  I have played with her off and on since 2012.  I’ve become more than a bit of a hermit of late, so it’s been ages since I’ve seen her.  But she certainly remains a valued and dear friend.

I hope you find her as lovely as I do…

Sinful Sunday

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Image du jour | 8-19-17

simply spectacular suspension ~ Sky Shibari

sky shibari

Sky shibari…

Stunning.  Evocative.

Sexually suggestive.  Yet, redolent with potential religious connotations.

To be honest, further attempts to describe, more of my words, would only distract.


A picture created by Lew Rubens is the image my “transformative art” is based upon.  An artist with both rope and camera, Rubens is a self-described…

Lewbari Master – Lew Rubens

Bondage freak, lover of people who love bondage. Bondage is my life. I have been making my living tying up girls since 2002.

Lew Reubens

I’ve titled my image “sky shibari”.  But, Lew’s inventive fusion of Shibari and Western Bondage styles is more properly known as “Lewbari“.

I probably don’t need to tell you, I am a great admirer of his work.  I first followed Mr Rubens back during his time producing episodes of Water Bondage for kink.com.