Accompanied by my beautiful slave/wife, I traveled this weekend to visit the inaugural meeting of the Dubuque Area M/s & D/s Discussion Group. Because the weather was a bit uncertain, not to mention that the event was about an hour and a half drive from home, we spent the night at Dubuque’s historic Hotel Julien. We stayed in the Jacuzzi suite, and invited our friend Alpha up for some fun (another story for another time.)
While we were waiting for our friend to arrive, Serafina managed to get herself tied to the baggage cart. So she wouldn’t get bored while we waited, I rolled her over by the windows. Isn’t baggage cart bondage fun?
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With the outline of the earlier, larger nipple suckers still very visible on her breasts, a second round of smaller nipple suckers now do their magic.
A vibrant (and sexy) lady submissive, with an absolute penchant for erotic suction games, has been joining Serafina and I for play. Her name is Lexxi Derrière, and if we are lucky, she may join us here at the Joy of Kink for some toy reviews. We are actively enabling her own explorations of the joy of kink, who knows what kinds of erotic mischief we might help her get her into . . .
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We have discovered a very special place for outdoors escapes and kinky fun. A location we call the Kinky Kabin.
On one of the visits there we had arrived before anyone else so Master Michael had me strip and lay on the bed and he very quickly restrained my hands over-head and feet yo an upper rail. Master left me there while he set out all his toys.
Before long I heard a cheerful greeting of Sir Alpha as he darted up the last steep stretch of the path that leads to the Kabin, and Master’s voice in reply. After exchanging a few more words, Master invited him to see how he had laid all his playthings.
Sir Alpha was appropriately impressed and especially delighted to see Master’s favorite toy ready and waiting. They both took some time to caress and tease before Master and Sir Alpha went outside to catch up on Dominant conversations and to smoke cigars.
After an hour had passed – (the time it takes to smoke a good cigar) they returned to check on me and by now the sun was streaming through a nearby window bathing Master Michael’s toy in sunlight as captured in today’s photo.
Restrained and Waiting at the Kinky Kabin
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I know submissive individuals of both sexes who struggle with truly giving their submission.
Now don’t misunderstand, they very much crave the sensations and play that a dominant can provide. They very much want what an experienced Master such as myself can give. But, they seem (at least at times) to forget that D/s is about an actual exchange of power. They seem to forget that to give them the scene that they desire, it is going to take a significant expenditure of energy on my part.
And, I’m not talking just the effort I put into it, because to me power exchange is really about an exchange of energy between the submissive and myself. The rope, restraint, whip, blindfold, and gag are just props. Crawling on her knees to me is an nice action, but it’s not actual submission. There are actions and tools to facilitate the exchange, but the exchange itself is a much deeper. Individuals observing my scenes may pick up technical hints and techniques they can apply in their own scenes, but the energy exchange isn’t quite so obviously apparent.
Of all the people I’ve played with in my life, Serafina understands this best. She has truly given herself to me, mind, body and soul. Everyday I feel the gift of her submission, I feel the energy she so freely gives. She gives joyous submission, without reservation. She is light to my darkness, she is the yang that balances my yin.
How do you show that to an individual who’s being mentored? It took years for Serafina and I to get to this point, it’s not a path that can be wandered down causally. If you want what we share, it’s going to take work, it’s going to take real effort. I’m not talking effort for a day, a week, or even a month. I’m talking years.
And, it doesn’t happen without allowing vulnerability. Serafina’s heart is in my hands. One moment of callous disregard could bring everything crushing down. With everything she gives to me, it’s absolutely essential that I protect and nurture my slave, as her gifts come from a place of very real vulnerability. Serafina cannot give me joyous submission without reservation if I don’t create the conditions where that gift can be given safely. I can’t truly give her the gift of my dominance without the very real exchange of power, the exchange that can be so difficult for some.
How do I describe that for an individual I’m mentoring? How do I show all of that in a picture?